Top 10 Reasons Carrie Bradshaw Was the WORST

and then we got to thinking about all

the times Carrie totally sucked

welcome to Ms mojo and today we're

counting down our picks for the top 10

reasons Carrie Bradshaw was the absolute


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this list we're looking at the most

horrible selfish and inconsiderate

things that Carrie did on Sex in the

City we're excluding things that

happened in the movies because we

already had plenty to work with oh and

we won't even be touching on some of her

wardrobe choices number 10

she's always trying to change big I left

a hair Pro 1200 and I didn't stop at

that much has been written about how

truly awful mr. big was to carry

throughout the series we even made a

video about it but what isn't always

acknowledged is that sometimes Carrie

was just as bad they say you shouldn't

be with someone you want to change and

this is advice that Carrie clearly does

not heed I am so tired of calming down

look I have to be in a relationship

where if I have to go to Paris I have to

go to Paris she obviously can't accept

big for who he is and is constantly

trying to mold him into the type of

person she wants bigs heart had closed


maybe it would reopen in another five

years maybe it wouldn't but I knew

myself well enough to know that that's

not enough she knows he's emotionally

withdrawn and afraid of commitment and

yet instead of moving on or accepting

his flaws she spends years giving him


number nine she bails on her friends for

guys bad news I don't think I'm gonna

make it

you can't come are you okay all the way

downtown with the Russian and it's very

cold out while friendship is touted as

the central theme of Sex in the City and

the girls agreed to be each other soul

mates Carrie repeatedly ignores one of

the central rules of female friendships

which is not to ditch your friends for a

guy she does it countless times

throughout the series notably in season

two when she stays in to eat veal with

big leaving Miranda alone at the bar

you and I are having dinner tonight well

he got this veal you blew me off for a

piece of politically incorrect meat

later on she does it all the time when

she's dating the Russian so much so that

it concerns the girls

she even ditches Charlotte while she's

blindfolded in a department store to

take a call from him get it together

Carrie I swear I looked and looked and

then I thought best if she finds me I'm

meeting him tomorrow cute huh

number eight she's a stubborn

inconsiderate smoker we could go on and

on about how Carrie manages to somehow

stay stick-thin while eating out all the

time and never exercising but let's

focus on one particular aspect of her

health we get it

Sex in the City took place in the 90s

and early aughts when smoking was much

more prevalent but even when she's asked

not to smoke somewhere Carrie flouts the

rules and disregards just how

inconsiderate it is to the non-smokers

around her nose Joaquin captain

sir we're talking up the but a cigarette

is an order

she's so devoted to this dirty habit

that she almost misses out on dating

Aiden because of it

I was completely ready to trade in my

crush right when it dawned on me just

how much I was willing to give up for a

cigarette number seven

she [ __ ] shame Samantha do you kiss

after a [ __ ]

no she just signs the delivery slip and

sends him on his way

the women of Sex in the City claimed to

be sexually liberated but aside from

Samantha they all show dated views on

female sexuality at some point

throughout the series if I walked in on

you giving a [ __ ] to a worldwide

Express guy you would never walk in on

me because that is something I would

never do there Carrie can be extremely

judgmental even if Sam who was very

understanding when Carrie admitted to

her that she was cheating on Aidan

the most notable instance is when she

walks in on Samantha being well intimate

with her worldwide Express guy

Harry shows a surprising lack of

understanding for the situation instead

of just laughing it off no number six

she can't accept that Natasha will

always hate her she thinks she is

Biggs wife that was awfully can't

believe there's a person in New York

could hate me that much after her affair

with big which trust us we'll get into

later Carrie seeks out some sort of

closure with his wife Natasha after

treating her with blatant disregard

throughout the time she was sleeping

with her husband Carrie expects that

Natasha will be willing to speak with

her so that she can lessen her guilt

about the situation understandably

Natasha is not amenable to this

especially when Carrie basically stalks

her after she refuses to meet her and if

there was something that I could do to

take it all away I would but I can't so

I came here today because I needed to

say how sorry I am the fact that she

just won't let this one slide is proof

of just how selfish she can be I'm sorry

that you felt the need to come down here

now not only have you ruined my marriage

you've ruined my lunch number five she's

a sex columnist but has narrow-minded

views on bisexuality sex in the city has

often been championed for being sexually

progressive and showing many aspects of

female sexuality on TV that had

previously gone undiscussed in season

three though Carrie starts dating a guy

and soon finds out that he's bisexual

and before her Lesley couldn't commit

and before Lesley there was mark

it's not a problem she is shockingly

uncial about the whole thing calling

into question whether bisexuality exists

at all she even goes as far as to call

bisexuality just a layover to gay town

you know I did the date the bisexual guy

thing in college but in the end they all

ended up with man yeah serious cringe

Samantha is actually the only one in the

group who isn't similarly closed-minded

on this issue you know I think it's


he's open to all sexual experiences he's

evolved it's not hot it's greedy he's

double dipping number four she expects

others to fix her financial messiness

why don't you offer me the money I knew

you were gonna say that I wouldn't take

it when Carrie and Aidan break up for

the second time Carrie is upset that

he's not simply leaving her the

apartment he purchased and she's forced

to come up with the money to buy it from

him because of her frivolous lifestyle

and spending habits she doesn't have any

savings and therefore goes to her

friends for help I could loan you the

rest look it is really really sweet of

you to to offer she somehow upset that

Charlotte doesn't offer her the money

for a down payment

despite the fact that of course

Charlotte shouldn't be expected to offer

her the money for a down payment

sitting at a Chinese restaurant turning

away when you should have been looking

at me and what chose me is you don't

even have to work you're volunteering

this sense of entitlement is hard to

ignore in her character number three she

just generally treats Aiden like crap

aside from the obviously horrible thing

that Carrie does to Aiden which like we

said we'll get to she basically

mistreats this wonderful guy throughout

their entire relationship all the time

don't you ever just shut up it all

starts with her lying and getting a

discount on his furniture then continues

all the way through until she accepts

his proposal even though she doesn't

actually want to marry him along the way

she's a total brat about his country

house and even has the gall to bring big

they're after everything that's happened

before I knew it I was telling him to

make a right at the sign

for farm-fresh summer squash I don't

want him in my house she totally

understands she never appreciates just

how good she has it with Aiden and of

course ruins it in the end

number two she magically makes every

conversation about her oh my god listen

to me going on and on about mushy go

caca tiny so can I obsess for another

minute Carrie sure knows how to talk

about herself and after she breaks up

with big her friends are so sick of

hearing her whine about their

relationship they actually sent her to

therapy honey you're obsessed with

talking about big and frankly we can't

take it anymore out of our league what

is this an intervention

but even more egregious is the fact that

despite the much more serious problems

that her friends are having Carrie

always manages to steer the conversation

back to herself and her own issues I'm

trying to jumpstart my ovary

I think the mothers taking those from

menopause why does she have a tilted

uterus Joe hey isn't anybody going to

notice my purse probably the most

memorable instance of this is when

Miranda hurts her neck

and Carrie shows up with bagels to cheer

her up when she arrives though she can't

stop talking about her problems with

Aidan and Miranda will not let it slide

you and your [ __ ] cheer me up

bagels they're just a decoy so you could

talk about anything look he didn't even

bring cream cheese before we unveil our

number-one pick

here are some dishonorable mentions I

understand why you see a shrink you know

cuz you're all always in your head but

I'm fine I am functioning besides I

don't really to be honest I just don't

buy the whole shrinks this it's bad

enough you send your boyfriend to help

me when I call you but now the [ __ ]


number one she cheats on Aidan with big

you broke the number-one entry on our

list is also the most obvious if there's

one thing that fans truly could not

forgive Carrie for it was her affair

with big cheatin on a partner is always

wrong but Carrie something

manages to make this situation even

worse every step of the way first of all

she cheats with the absolute worst

person for her who also happens to be

married she also continuously feels

sorry for herself throughout the process

rather than reflecting on how others are

affected by her actions I had always

assumed the one who would be heard in

all this would be me and finally her

treatment of aden when they finally do

get back together is almost unbearable

to watch you have to forgive me do you

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