What is best attitude
2 SIMPLE TIPS TO HAVE A PERFECT ATTITUDE (WITH ENGLISH SUBTITLES)
Hello Friends...!!!
there was a man who used to earn money by selling different colors balloon daily
whenever his sale used to go down, he leave some balloon in the sky
and children used to get excited after seeing that balloon in the sky
and they immediately used to visit that man to buy one such balloon
Because of which his sale used to grow once again
one day a boy asked him that
if he will leave a BLACK color balloon in the sky, will it flew?
that man smiled at that boy and said
it's not the color of the balloon but it is whats inside that makes it go up
this same principles are applied to our life also
our ability, attitude and motivation always help us to move ahead in life
Ability teach us that How We DO
Motivation teach us that Why We Do
but its our Attitude that decide How Well We DO
YOUR ATTITUDE CONTRIBUTES TO SUCCESS
We all know the power of POSITIVE THINKING
but very few people understand the power of NEGATIVE THINKING
Yes...this both thing are powerful but in opposite way
Positive thinking encourage a person to touch new heights of success
on the other hand, Negative thinking is the reason behind self destruction
Example
Once in a village, there came a very big Monster
and everyone in the village was having fear about that monster
a child the village people that why they don't killed that monster?
village people said that can't he see? How huge it is...
the child said No...He is just big to miss
that child threw a big stone on that monster head and killed him
Moral One Giant but different Perception
our attitude decide that how we face the problem
for example
for positive thinking people, problem is like a big opportunity for them
whereas for a negative thinking people, problem is like a big obstacle for them
In my earlier video I had explained you that every problem bring an opportunity along with it
FACTORS THAT DETERMINE OUR ATTITUDE
Attitude start forming in us from the childhood itself
there are 3 E's factor that largely determine our attitude formation
First is ENVIRONMENT
Environment consists of many things
like environment at home, school environment, office environment or political environment
all different types of environment creates a culture
Example
you went to a shop and got a very good service there
you went to another shop but there you were treated very badly
the reason behind this is different culture
culture determine our environment which indirectly decides our attitude
Second is EXPERIENCE
a positive experience with a person attracts us towards them
while negative experience keep us away from them
Experience or events acts as guidelines for future
Example
you teach your children that telling lie is a bad habit
on the other side, you speak like on phone just to make an excuse
at this stage children get confused
between what they learned and what they experienced
and ultimately they decide their conclusion on the basis of their experienced
Third is EDUCATION
it refers to both formal and informal education
we convert our education into knowledge, experience and wisdom
in form of attitude which transform it into success
there are many benefits of Positive Attitude
like...you get a meaning for your life
you start inspiring yourself and others also
there is an increase in business and profit
you solve many problems by taking a positive decision
In short it reduces stress and improves quality
on the other side, there are many consequences of negative attitude
negative thinking people lives a purposeless life
neither they are satisfied with anything
whether it is friendship, job, marriage or relationship
moreover the level of frustration, rudeness and stress increase continuously in their life
many time they want to remove such thing from their life
but their negative attitude resist them from doing so
example
a man was sentenced 15 years of imprisonment
after completing 15 years in jail, he was free to go
but he started feeling uncomfortable within few hours after leaving the jail
because he had adapted the habit of living in jail
that's why he committed one more big crime again so that he can live in jail forever
sometime we become so comfortable with our negativity that we don't change
despite of knowing that its good for us
STEP TO GAIN POSITIVE ATTITUDE
1)CHANGE FOCUS, LOOK FOR THE POSITIVE
many time people always find that thing that they are looking for
that's why we should search positive instead of negative in others
ANDREW CARNEGIE was the richest man in USA and one of the largest steel manufacturer in the world
having a net worth of 310 billion dollars
once he was asked that how he deal with people
Andrew said that dealing with people is like searching for gold
we have to separate dust and mud while searching for gold
Similarly, while searching for positive thing in a person, first we have to avoid negative thing about that person
ANDREW CARNEGIE message was clear that change focus and look for the positive
2)MAKE A HABIT OF DOING IT NOW
I have procrastinated many thing in life which I regret today also
Procrastination leads to negative attitude which results into delay and regret
Example
when a person is small, he think that he will be happy when he will grow
when he grow and become a boy, he think that he will be happy when his studies will get over
when his studies get over, he think he will be happy when he will get a job
when he get the job, he think he will be happy when he will get married
when he get married, he think that he will be happy after having his own family
when he make his own family, he think that after retirement he will be always happy
and when get retired from job, he find that time has gone and its too late now to be happy and enjoy life
some people procrastinate by saying that they are analyzing or getting ready for the future
but even after six month, they are still analyzing or getting ready
if you want to develop a positive attitude then stop procrastination and make a habit of doing it now
So to conclude...
WINNING is like an event
but being a winner is a spirit
inculcate "YES YOU CAN" spirit in yourself by developing a positive attitude
Always remember one thing Winners don't do different think..they do think differently
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