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2 SIMPLE TIPS TO HAVE A PERFECT ATTITUDE (WITH ENGLISH SUBTITLES)

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there was a man who used to earn money by selling different colors balloon daily

whenever his sale used to go down, he leave some balloon in the sky

and children used to get excited after seeing that balloon in the sky

and they immediately used to visit that man to buy one such balloon

Because of which his sale used to grow once again

one day a boy asked him that

if he will leave a BLACK color balloon in the sky, will it flew?

that man smiled at that boy and said

it's not the color of the balloon but it is whats inside that makes it go up

this same principles are applied to our life also

our ability, attitude and motivation always help us to move ahead in life

Ability teach us that How We DO

Motivation teach us that Why We Do

but its our Attitude that decide How Well We DO

YOUR ATTITUDE CONTRIBUTES TO SUCCESS

We all know the power of POSITIVE THINKING

but very few people understand the power of NEGATIVE THINKING

Yes...this both thing are powerful but in opposite way

Positive thinking encourage a person to touch new heights of success

on the other hand, Negative thinking is the reason behind self destruction

Example

Once in a village, there came a very big Monster

and everyone in the village was having fear about that monster

a child the village people that why they don't killed that monster?

village people said that can't he see? How huge it is...

the child said No...He is just big to miss

that child threw a big stone on that monster head and killed him

Moral One Giant but different Perception

our attitude decide that how we face the problem

for example

for positive thinking people, problem is like a big opportunity for them

whereas for a negative thinking people, problem is like a big obstacle for them

In my earlier video I had explained you that every problem bring an opportunity along with it

FACTORS THAT DETERMINE OUR ATTITUDE

Attitude start forming in us from the childhood itself

there are 3 E's factor that largely determine our attitude formation

First is ENVIRONMENT

Environment consists of many things

like environment at home, school environment, office environment or political environment

all different types of environment creates a culture

Example

you went to a shop and got a very good service there

you went to another shop but there you were treated very badly

the reason behind this is different culture

culture determine our environment which indirectly decides our attitude

Second is EXPERIENCE

a positive experience with a person attracts us towards them

while negative experience keep us away from them

Experience or events acts as guidelines for future

Example

you teach your children that telling lie is a bad habit

on the other side, you speak like on phone just to make an excuse

at this stage children get confused

between what they learned and what they experienced

and ultimately they decide their conclusion on the basis of their experienced

Third is EDUCATION

it refers to both formal and informal education

we convert our education into knowledge, experience and wisdom

in form of attitude which transform it into success

there are many benefits of Positive Attitude

like...you get a meaning for your life

you start inspiring yourself and others also

there is an increase in business and profit

you solve many problems by taking a positive decision

In short it reduces stress and improves quality

on the other side, there are many consequences of negative attitude

negative thinking people lives a purposeless life

neither they are satisfied with anything

whether it is friendship, job, marriage or relationship

moreover the level of frustration, rudeness and stress increase continuously in their life

many time they want to remove such thing from their life

but their negative attitude resist them from doing so

example

a man was sentenced 15 years of imprisonment

after completing 15 years in jail, he was free to go

but he started feeling uncomfortable within few hours after leaving the jail

because he had adapted the habit of living in jail

that's why he committed one more big crime again so that he can live in jail forever

sometime we become so comfortable with our negativity that we don't change

despite of knowing that its good for us

STEP TO GAIN POSITIVE ATTITUDE

1)CHANGE FOCUS, LOOK FOR THE POSITIVE

many time people always find that thing that they are looking for

that's why we should search positive instead of negative in others

ANDREW CARNEGIE was the richest man in USA and one of the largest steel manufacturer in the world

having a net worth of 310 billion dollars

once he was asked that how he deal with people

Andrew said that dealing with people is like searching for gold

we have to separate dust and mud while searching for gold

Similarly, while searching for positive thing in a person, first we have to avoid negative thing about that person

ANDREW CARNEGIE message was clear that change focus and look for the positive

2)MAKE A HABIT OF DOING IT NOW

I have procrastinated many thing in life which I regret today also

Procrastination leads to negative attitude which results into delay and regret

Example

when a person is small, he think that he will be happy when he will grow

when he grow and become a boy, he think that he will be happy when his studies will get over

when his studies get over, he think he will be happy when he will get a job

when he get the job, he think he will be happy when he will get married

when he get married, he think that he will be happy after having his own family

when he make his own family, he think that after retirement he will be always happy

and when get retired from job, he find that time has gone and its too late now to be happy and enjoy life

some people procrastinate by saying that they are analyzing or getting ready for the future

but even after six month, they are still analyzing or getting ready

if you want to develop a positive attitude then stop procrastination and make a habit of doing it now

So to conclude...

WINNING is like an event

but being a winner is a spirit

inculcate "YES YOU CAN" spirit in yourself by developing a positive attitude

Always remember one thing Winners don't do different think..they do think differently

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